About a decade, or so ago –
back when I was naive and new to the job industry – I worked for
this rather terrible boss. Most of us have unfortunately experienced
just how difficult and hectic having such a boss can make working
life. It can even spill into your everyday, personal life. Ugh.
Somehow, I managed to survive
for (only) a little over three months before I was steamrolled out
the door. During that time, I experienced many blame games,
ridiculous requests and inconveniences (almost to the point of not
being able to do my job!) resulting from poor and lazy management.
Not JUST from the general manager AKA boss, but from the store
manager as well. I don't know how the assistant manager handled all
the burdens thrown her way, but without her covering two of the five
stores no employee would have been able to work and the stores would
have went under much faster than they did.
None of those stores are open
now. They are just dusty husks of their structures. A result, I
believe, that stems from the two, or three people who approached me
one-on-one during a few of my shifts. These people told me about the
horrible things the boss had done and warned me I needed to leave
before any of it happened to me. From simply not getting paid for
work, to being prosecuted for stealing hundreds in lottery money,
stealing store product, or accused of selling tobacco to minors and
also being subjected to sexual harassment.
Each person had paperwork with
them and warned me they were going to court and were absolutely
determined to bring this boss down. Hard. Without mercy. They were
livid as they recounted what happened to them. Not only them, but
other former employees they had rallied together. Apparently, there
were at least five others who were ready to fight.
Stupid me. I should have left
the job then and there. I had already experienced issues; such as it
taking months to be given one too-large uniform shirt, but never a
name tag, nor the promised increased pay after my initial probation
period. I was SO naive.
However, it wasn't until after
my friend, who managed a different store and who recommended me for
hire to the boss, was suddenly fired that crap really started to
fling my way. It was cruel how the boss treated my friend. My friend
had worked hard to manage multiple stores and had done loads of
repairs and cleaning by himself, saving the stores thousands of
dollars. He had recently been promised a raise, which would help as
he was newly married. Then, as soon as he had done all the extensive
labor, he was fired without warning and without reason. Over the
phone.
This left me feeling angry.
Out of loyalty, since he was my friend, I asked him if he wanted me
to quit. I didn't want to work for such a jerk, but he told me he
knew I needed the job and to try to stick it out until I could find
something else.
Without him working,
everything got thrown onto the assistant manager, since neither the
boss, nor the manager wanted to work. It was almost too much for the
assistant manager, but for the sake of keeping her job so she could
support her son through a crisis, she held in there. Seriously. The
manager would come in, plop in her office with food and a fashion
magazine and stay in there reading and eating until she left for the
day. The assistant manager did all the paperwork. It didn't even
matter if I was out of change, which I ran out of change on a Friday
and remained that way over that weekend. I was told to deal with it
and ask for change from costumers, or only take exact change if they
didn't use credit, or debit.
Late at night I had to go
outside alone where there wasn't even a camera or much light to stick
the gas tanks and clean the trash cans. My car had already been
broken into once and I was dealing with a stalker at the time. The manager griped
about having the employee work scheduled moved out of sight from the
costumers and pinned in the office where it belonged. I guess the
manager didn't want to be disturbed while she goofed off in there.
My hours were cut until I was
lucky to work seven hours a week after being promised no less than
thirty-six hours a week. Driving thirty minutes one way to work just
for three, or four hours of work at minimum pay really hurt and all I
had was a van. Gas was (and still is!) expensive. I started being
accused of taking lottery money and cigarettes, but nothing was ever
done about it because they said the cameras hadn't caught me yet. Was
told off for staying too late to finish all my work, and then –
once I found a way to work more efficiently and get it all done in
good time – was yelled at for not doing any of my duties. I was
scared, confused and dreaded going to work.
Even so, I reminded the boss
of our agreement that I work no less than thirty-six hours a week.
The response I received made my jaw drop. I was told no such promise
was made, but if I wanted more hours then I could go to the other
stores any time I wanted – where I didn't know the employees, they
didn't know me and remember I was never given a name tag – and ask
to take money from the register to go off store property and buy
cleaning supplies to return and clean with.
I told the boss I didn't feel
comfortable with that if I wasn't so much as scheduled and the
employees told to expect me, or even given a certain amount of money
and a list to buy off of. It just SCREAMED wrong, especially since I
had already been accused of stealing.
Although I needed the hours, I
didn't take the bait – erm, I mean offer.
The final straw was when I got
sick to the point I couldn't get out of bed and called the manager.
She never picked up. I must have called her three, or more times
throughout the day, leaving voice messages on top of texting her.
What hurt is her voicemail greeting included something along the
lines of “if I don't get back with you then you're not important”.
Of course, I already called the store to speak with the assistant
manager so someone knew I couldn't make it and apologized to her for
not being able to come in for my shift. I felt so bad for her. She
already had so much to deal with.
The three days I was
bedridden, I was unable to contact either the manger, or the boss. I
should mention a couple weeks after my hours were reduced I went to
the Unemployment Office to file partial unemployment to help make
ends meet. Once I was able, since I couldn't contact the two lazy
managers by phone, I sought them out at the stores. I finally caught
the boss. At this point I had spoken with the assistant manager and
discovered I had been taken off the schedule.
The response I received from
the boss once again made my mouth drop open. The excuse? It was
believed I had quit because I didn't show up for work and
unemployment had been in contact. I called BS and recounted the many
times I had tried to call, as well as the fact unemployment would
have made it clear that I had filed for PARTIAL unemployment. Had I
seen, or been able to get in touch with the boss more often I would
have mentioned having to file in the first place.
Regardless of having not quit,
I was no longer allowed to work and wouldn't receive the two checks I
was owed until I turned in my uniform shirt. Having expected this possibility, I walked to my van, grabbed my one, overly large shirt
and thrust it at the boss. I wanted my checks before I left.
Thankfully, I was given them without further hassle.
The real hassle came in trying
to collect unemployment. The boss and manager fought with me and
tried to get my benefits denied. After many appeals, I won, but I
took a penalty because of the lies they said against me.
Some time passed. I stayed friends with the
assistant manager. While I had been working, I had attended classes for my GED. One day I showed up with my diploma in a
legal document folder to show off to her. Not five minutes after my
arrival, the manager pulls up in her car and stares at me. Just
stares. She never leaves her car. I see her stony face pale as she
stares at the folder I'm holding. I look at the assistant manager,
share one last laugh with her, and then leave so as not to get her in trouble.
Finally, the moment everyone
is waiting for that makes this long story worth it! Justice! Guess
who got caught stealing all that store product and lottery money? The
manager was jailed for it! The same butthole that had made all us
employees count everything before and after every shift to “try to
catch the culprit”. It was in the newspaper and all I could do was
laugh and hope the young, single mother who had been fired for
stealing would now be able to clear her name.
I turned in documents about
what all had happened to me while working under the boss. Combine
that with the force of former employees that were out for
vengeance... Yeah, all five stores closed. There must be a lot of
crap that happened because the properties and buildings have yet to
be renovated for another business to move in.
I lost touch with the
assistant manager after a while, but the last time I saw her she
seemed to be doing well at a better job. For this I am thankful.
Crappy bosses are awful,
aren't they? Especially when you're starting work for the first time
and don't know your rights, who to turn to for help, or know the
proper steps to take for legal assistance.
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